This retrograde placement can cause immense lack of self-worth. Self-love and care become vital with this retrograde placement, since either you didn’t get enough care & nurturing during your childhood, be it emotionally/physically or you didn’t understand how to care for yourself or both. Since you feel a lack of stability and security deep within, you might expect others to treat you badly or neglect your well-being.
You will have to move beyond such experiences and practice self-care routines consciously. You will have to actively nurture yourself, make efforts to give yourself warmth, comfort and kindness, as a form of re-parenting your inner child. This can be in an emotional way or in a physical way or both. You need to reassure yourself of your worth and hence develop a healthy ego to overcome any lack mentality.
This can also mean surrounding yourself with positive people/situations/places, being in pleasant environments both at home and at work where you feel safe & loved. Relationships where you can be yourself, and relearn how to share love, money, time, efforts, etc. in a healthy reciprocal way can also help you heal some of your inner wounds, since previously you might have had troubles connecting & trusting others especially emotionally & with your possessions.
Clinging on to people out of fear of abandonment can cause major rifts in those relationships. So, showing maturity when certain chapters come to an end and letting others make their choices, most importantly, respecting their choices will be a continuing lesson. You might experience similar situations where those who lack of emotional maturity may hold you back from moving on, out of their own fear of abandonment, inner child wounds, etc. Learning to maintain healthy relationships, unlearning toxic parenting, becoming a better parent to yourself will help you understand yourself and also others, especially when you choose to become a parent/caretaker yourself.
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