You are exceptionally intense, passionate, creative yet sensitive, compassionate & nurturing. You have a strong relationship with your Inner Devine Feminine (regardless of your gender). If anything, this is your most cherished bond to/with yourself as you likely had to fight to accept your Inner Femininity for the longest part of your early life. This aspect means that you are one with your Instincts and your Intuition.
To most others you are extremely attractive, mesmerizing & irresistible, yet not many can see how equally nurturing, caring & supportive you are. You are in touch with your sexual desires along with your sensuality. Since, it might be that most people can only cast their projections, prejudices & envy at you without ever attempting to actually know you. Likewise, you can also be extra protective of yourself and who gets to know the real you.
You likely have a Lifestyle, Self-Image, Public Image, Career, Relationship dynamics, etc. that are unusual or unconventional, at least out of the ordinary, hence it can go against the societal norms. Your approach to sexuality & gender roles can also be based more on broad-thinking & independent preferences rather than traditional expectations. You may be bold, decisive and like to have control over your life rather than to let anyone or any system to tell you what to do.
You know what you deserve and nobody can manipulate you into lowering your Standards. So you are determined to only entertain situations, possibilities & relationships that are well-deserved of you and can give you what you deserve & desire. You hence don’t stay where you don’t feel appreciated or respected; dynamics that create unnecessary hardships & toxicity that you don’t deserve to experience. You only stay where you are respected, cherished & adored, just the way you love, care & nourish (yourself & others).
So, you may be considered as “wild, unruly and too much”, even when you are only being yourself (or may be that’s exactly what their problem is: you being unapologetically yourself). This “wild” side of yours also adds to your attractiveness. An “untamed” allure that others want to know more about. This aspect hence inadvertently increases tensions among other’s expectations along with your sex appeal, charisma & magnetism.
Now, how you use this exceptional allure & a bit of infamy is up to you, but it is wise not to give into opportunism, promiscuity, rebelliousness and blurring the moral boundaries. Instead, it is advised to use it with discernment, to explore your sexual desires and fantasies without putting yourself &/or others in danger (as that is a very real thing to be aware of with this intense aspect).
In general, you likely are going to break a lot of hearts whether you are aware of it or not (likewise, whether you enter into relationships with someone or not). Since, most may admire you from a distance and think that you are unattainable/unapproachable (for whatever reason). Be weary of stalkers or other obsessive abnormal behaviors from certain people.
Many people with malicious intentions can be attracted to you. They may often be eager & desperate to form Karmic bonds with you (through romantic, familial or career). It is hence extremely vital to cultivate discernment in all kinds of offers and proposals (even temptations). You need to maintain extra strong boundaries not just with strangers but even with those you already know & trust, since Lilith can often indicate to danger and hence the need for Self-preservation (as a precaution). There may be some who might have ulterior motives in making you a third party or bringing in a third party in your romantic relationships, be weary of compromising your principles in relationships.
You may be considered as someone who can’t be easily tied down in relationships (which may or may not be true). Yet, most may love the chase more than the prize, if you know what I mean. The same can be true about your approach to romance, where you might be passionate & driven but you are also easily dissatisfied after attaining what/who you want. This can (however) be said more about dating than actual Commitments, so you are likely to have a very different approach to Serious Relationships & Marriage.
It is likely that you might have deep desires to get married and have a happy family of your own, but traditional expectations in Marriage & Serious Commitments may clash with your free-spirited & independent nature. So you are likely to commit to a Serious Relationship only if your partner: is not too traditional in their mindset & expectations, respects your individual life choices, and understands you very well. A marriage & commitment based on mutual trust, respect & understanding where you are both faithful to each other yet have independent aspects/priorities of your life (like family - career) that you both support equally even if you are not fully involved in those areas of each other’s life.
In other words, morally sound yet traditionally unconventional marriages work the best for you. In fact, this may be true for all kinds of Relationships, since you need a level of autonomy & space to be truly yourself. Otherwise you’re likely to feel stifled, restricted & chained, which can lead to feelings of resentment, anger & grief. Such a marriage may seem peculiar yet worthy of envy to most others, since you are both able to transcend certain Archaic limitations to achieve Great Personal & Marital Success (without sacrificing one for the other).
Maintaining your sovereignty is vital to you, since it is likely that you often deal with Power-dynamics in relationships, especially in those relationships where one can have a sense of Entitlement by the sheer virtue of a familial &/or romantic bond (societal norms). You will prioritize to always be able to get out of any relationship, especially if in the past you have been in situations where you felt trapped & unable to get yourself to safety in any way. The same is true with disrespect, as you may have been in relationships where the other person was clearly derating you (in one way or another) to either satisfy their own tiny ego &/or to simply ruin your reputation.
With Lilith’s influence, you are likely to be talked about by others, often with malicious intentions, yet you are able to ward off rumors and other nefarious attempts at tarnishing your reputation through the strength of your Character & Tact. You are wise, calculated & skilled at handling tricky people/situations/dynamics. Your naturally Likable and Lively personality coupled with Wit & Social Intelligence can save you from any trap or unjust scrutiny by your opponents (and most others in general). You are likely to develop resourceful connections who can be your ally. Although Friends / Family / Romantic partners / Acquaintances / Business partners alike will include both who are traitorous and those that are passionately by your side. You are however a very good ‘judge of character’ who can often figure out others’ intentions easily.
With Lilith’s influence, you’re likely to be acquainted/related to people who may be shady and not forthcoming. This may be something to be weary of in both Personal & Professional relationships. On the other hand, you are also open-minded, empathetic & generous of heart, so you don’t often judge people with a heavy past (e.x. who have reformed themselves and are true to living an upright & honest life). The same is true about those that may have experienced injustice & ostracism in the past, since you empathize with their feelings through your own experiences.
You have a natural understanding of what is right, just & balanced especially in Relationships & Social contracts. So, when in dysfunctional or unequal Power dynamics, you don’t hesitate to demand a balanced & harmonious bond, instead of disrespectful, codependent or other Power Imbalances. You are also not hesitant to walk out of such situations or even sever ties regardless of Social expectations (e.x., when in an abusive household, you are likely to cut-ties with parents or other family members regardless of how others feel about your decision).
You have a deeper sense of Justice & Balance, so it is not easy to deceive & coerce you into staying in and entertaining a clearly unfair dynamic, especially where there is abuse of some kind (psychological, emotional, physical). Whether you have personally experienced such terrible situations or have witnessed it growing up, you are likely to fight for those in similar situations either in your own Personal life & as a Social cause. You always clearly expect Fair, Harmonious & Mutually Empowering dynamics in all relationships and would not hesitate to break away & move on when that (simple) standard is not met and you don’t see any potential for it.
You are naturally in-sync with your Creativity, with a vast potential for Artistic Excellence. You can attain Fame, Popularity and Acclaim through Creative ventures and Artistic Self-expression. Hence, you can build a successful career through your Talents & Skills. You are able to attract numerous Financial Opportunities, some through conventional others through unexpected ways. You develop excellent Financial skills through education and real-life experiences alike. This aspect can help you heal from Inner Wounds related to Poverty (be it from experience or mindset) and naturally align yourself towards Abundance.
You are able to experience the finer things in life and naturally align towards a comfortable Lifestyle, Career, Romantic & Home life. You are likely to secure a Luxurious, Comfortable and Stable Financial foundation overtime (if not already affluent). You are also likely to marry into money (or vice versa) and can create profitable Business(s) / Career(s) with your spouse. Attaining Professional Success and elevating Social Status can be some of your most enjoyable goals to prioritize on. Abundance and Prosperity are naturally attracted to you, (especially) since you are in-tune with your Inner Divine Feminine and True Sense of Self.
It is likely that you have experienced issues & insecurities w.r.t. your body and appearance. Even when most people find you attractive, you still deal with a fair amount of Self-image & body related issues (mainly through self-criticism) that you eventually overcome. You are able to develop a high level of Self-acceptance which also boosts your Self-esteem. This level of Personal Transformation through Honesty & Self-love is inspirational to others who may be struggling through similar issues.
Self-worth may have been one of the serious concerns growing up. You might have experienced certain life changing situations / relationships early on that helped you develop a Healthy Sense of Self and hence cultivate good Self-Worth. This is were you also develop a high Self-esteem hence equally high Standards for your Life as a whole. You have high Morals and great Values. You are able to develop a Righteous, Prestigious & Positive character that others both admire and envy. You are really good at creating Self-care routines, nutritious diets, healthy lifestyle, etc. for yourself (and your loved ones). Your Self-Respect makes you want to have/do/be everything that reflects just how you are full of Self-Love.
This aspect gives you exceptional charisma, vivacious sensuality, sexual appeal, elegance, passionate desires, ambitions & aspirations that are out of the ordinary. Drive & determination, tact & social skills, etc. that can help you attain inevitable Success in Social, Personal, Romantic & Professional Life. Hence, Lilith Conjunct Venus can be one of the most significant & powerful aspects in your chart that can indicate to Wealth, Prosperity, Comfort, Harmony and Security. However with all Lilith aspects, how you cultivate your Inner-self and with what intentions you utilize this unusually expectational aspect can determine the Success and attainment of your deepest Dreams & Desires.
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